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AdultFriendFinder review
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Good for: Married or attached people after casual sex rather than an ongoing affair, and swinging couples.
Skip it if: Discretion is the whole point: its 2016 breach exposed about 412 million accounts, including deleted ones.
Visit AdultFriendFinderAdultFriendFinder isn't an affair site, but a lot of its members are married or attached and say so, and couples use it to find third parties and swinging partners. It is explicit, busy and direct, which suits casual encounters better than a slow-burn affair.
Messaging needs a paid Gold membership, cheapest by the year. Verification is thin, so expect some fakes and video-chat before you meet. The privacy record is the one to weigh: in 2016 about 412 million FriendFinder Networks accounts were exposed, roughly 340 million of them from AFF, including about 16 million accounts users had deleted but the company still kept.
If you join, do it with a fresh email, a username unrelated to any other account and no face photos on the public profile. Our guide to affair-site breaches and billing has the full setup.
The facts
- Cost
- Free to join and browse; messaging needs Gold, reported at $24.95 a month, $20.95 a month over 3 months, or $14.95 a month billed yearly.[1]
- Who uses it
- AFF publishes no audited active-user numbers. Large "member" totals on adult sites usually count every account ever created, active or not. (Our own check: no published source found.)
- Verification & safety tools
- We found no published photo- or ID-verification system like the mainstream apps'. Treat every profile as unverified until you have video-chatted. (Our own check: no published source found.)
- Privacy record
- In October 2016 about 412M accounts across FriendFinder Networks' sites were exposed, roughly 340M of them AdultFriendFinder accounts, including more than 15M accounts users had deleted but the company still kept. Use an email address and username that are not tied to your real name.[2][3]
- Bots, fakes & regulators
- We found no regulator action or credible investigation about fake profiles on this platform. That is not proof there are none: report anything that looks automated. (Our own check: no published source found.)